Attention Addict!

My mother once told me that too much confidence is a sign of low self-esteem. She said confidence, beauty must be accompanied by humbleness and discretion. At that time, this did not make sense to me. How can I be confident and have low-self-esteem at the same time? Have you ever met that woman who is so beautiful it’s hard not to watch; when she enters the room everyone turns? When she is quiet you swear is a misplaced angel. Everything about her is perfect, her hair, her face feature…

Take Off That Mask!

Few years ago, back in South Africa, I was leaving my apartment with my friend Terrence and his now wife Ashy going to church. At the parking lot, he walked towards me and started wiping the make-up off my face. It was an unusual gesture, so standing there amazed, I started laughing. Without saying anything I got into to my car and went to church. It wasn’t until this past Sunday when I asked him, what was that all about and this is what he said to me: “You put…

The Enemy Within

There is a struggle that goes on in a life of each woman. It is constant and waits for each morning to come so it can continue where it left of the night before…it goes on and on and on. It is called the INNER VOICE … We all go through times where we doubt ourselves when our insecurities and imperfections have the best of us. It is always that inner voice that tells you are not good enough, you cannot achieve or you cannot get what you want or…

6 Ways to Avoid Dating a Douchebag

It always saddens me to see all these young people falling in love with the wrong person only to get hurt in the end. I think it’s because I can relate so much because I have been there. Before I met my husband I made bad choices and ended up with what my husband now calls: a relationSHIT (excuse the language). 1.Do Not Pretend To Be Something You Are Not – If you are looking for a serious and long lasting relationship, do not act and pretend like you’re not looking…

This Story Will Teach You The Truth About Love And Faith!

Ian suffered a debilitating brainInjury after being involved in a car crash. Despite of his continued disability- his girlfriend Larissa decided that he will marry to get married. The Story of Ian & Larissa Murphy  biggies like a normal s atypical love story, but theirs ends like a true-life fairytale. This Story will teach you what true love and faith is all about.    

Don’t Be A Hostage Of Your Limits In 2016

I have been wondering what it is that I want for my life? If God showed up right now – what would I say to him? what would I ask him? There are so many things that come to mind, I want my family to be very successful, I want my son to have a better life, I want my loved ones to get to know God… But I think…I would say – God help me get to know myself and let me be the best person I can be.…

The Princess And The Fraud!

There is a reality show on DStv called “I Wanna Marry Harry”. The plot is like “The Bachelor”, but is about a guy named Matt Hicks, who looks just like Harry (the prince of England), and 12 American women who are convinced it’s Harry. But they don’t know that this guy is only a pretend Prince. Everything about the show will suggest that he is the real prince- the bodyguards, the dates he goes on, etc. and he has been trained to know everything about Prince Harry and to do…

What Does Your Future Spouse Look Like?

So following my article titled “Being Single and Christian”, I have received emails, young Godly women asking me what qualities to look for in a husband. Question: I hope you are well. I just had the pleasure to read your article, Being Single and Christian. Well done. It really strengthened my resolve. Though I have made errors along my journey through life your article has showed me that despite my errors God still has a plan for my life. You raised a very fundamental topic, what qualities do I need…

A Woman Who Needs Pruning

There is a saying that goes: When a woman is not arguing, she is thinking deeply…mhhh. What if she is not thinking, if she is just listing for once? For the past weeks I have been waking up every morning feeling like I have been hit by a Gautrain bus. This was most likely caused by a lot of changes in my life both prfessional and private life. During this perios of time, I have also been emotionally vulnerable. Sometimes life gets lonely not because you don’t have anyone around…